• Leave a TV or radio on low (nothing overly intense).
• Use a fan or white-noise machine near their resting spot.
• Create a calm playlist and use it only when you’re gone (it becomes a cue).

Over time, the background sound becomes a cue: “This is my chill time while they’re out.”

Your scent is comforting — but you don’t want to encourage chewing clothing. Transfer your smell onto things they’re allowed to chew and cuddle.

• Toss a few favorite toys into your laundry basket so they smell like you.
• Wash dog blankets with your clothes so the blanket smells “human” too.
• Keep the focus on dog-safe items: toys, blankets, safe chews, or pillowcases used as covers.

For toy-based redirection (especially with mouthy puppies), see: Smells Like Success →

A tired brain handles stress better. For Great Danes and other giant breeds, aim for balanced activity: enough movement to help them rest — not so much you overload joints.

• Short walk or sniff walk 20–30 minutes before you leave.
• 5–10 minutes of easy training (sits, downs, tricks, nose work).
• End with something calm: a chew, lick mat, or quiet cuddle time.

For more detail (especially for Danes), see: Great Dane exercise guide →

Think of calming products as helpful tools — not magic buttons. They work best when paired with routine and training.

• Offer special chews/lick mats only when you leave (they become positive cues).
• Test new treats/supplements when you’re home first (watch for stomach upset).
• Follow dosing instructions carefully — more isn’t always better.
• Talk to your vet before prescription meds or strong calming products.

Mild whining or pacing can be normal. True separation anxiety can be serious and may need professional help. Watch for:

• Destruction focused around doors/windows/crates.
• Excessive drooling, panting, or pacing as you prepare to leave.
• Neighbors reporting nonstop barking/howling/crying.
• Accidents only when you’re gone (despite solid potty training).
• Self-injury (damaged teeth, scraped paws, broken nails) from escape attempts.

If you’re seeing these signs, talk with your veterinarian or a trainer specializing in separation anxiety. Early help can change life for both of you.

• White-noise machine or fan for steady background sound.
• A safe crate or quiet room with comfortable bedding.
• Lick mats, puzzle toys, and long-lasting chews for “alone-time” enrichment.
• Calming wraps/vests for gentle pressure (if your dog likes it).
• Quality calming chews approved by your vet.

Dogs don’t process stress like humans do. They can’t tell themselves “I’ll be fine in an hour.” But with the right environment, scent tricks, safe exercise, and enrichment, most dogs can learn that you leaving is normal, predictable, and safe.

Keep the noise familiar, let safe toys carry your scent, give smart activity before you go, and use calming tools when needed. Over time, your dog can trade panic and destruction for naps and quiet chews — and you both get more peace.